I have first-hand experience of what it feels like for people to judge the demise of your relationship; to pick it apart and label a scapegoat for its failure. I don't want to play that game with Jon and Kate Gosselin, the stars of the TLC reality show, Jon & Kat Plus Eight. Anytime a relationship fails and kids are involved, it's sad. They are the ultimate victims, no matter what went down between their parents. Click on the picture below to watch a video of how Jon & Kate met...I really hope they can work it out!